How many times have you experienced buyer’s remorse – the feeling of guilt after paying (possibly a hefty price) for something which you do not actually need?
As a matter of fact, I experience it quite often.
I keep buying stuff which might not come across as “cheap” to others, and on hindsight, I, too, don’t think that the particular item which I paid for can be labelled as “cheap”; though it’s relatively cheaper in comparison to a similar item.
The thing is that I don’t actually need them.
Maybe you can say that I’m vain and materialistic – I know I am, and have no qualms about admitting it.
But, I believe people pamper themselves in different ways. There are people who love to travel; there are also people who change cars faster than you can pronounce “Lamborghini“.
For me, I just like to pamper myself by shopping. I enjoy getting gadgets and buying stuff which will make me feel and look better. Since young, I have always believed in the saying that “Clothes maketh the man“.
In my humble opinion, unlike girls, most guys actually have very few accessories to play mix-and-match with. Most of my guy friends don’t have the habit of wearing pendants, chains, etc. as they don’t like to accessorise.
Neither do I.
Guys do not need 94 pairs of shoes; neither do they need 57 bags, 121 pairs of earrings and 47 necklaces. The only accessories which they might own are probably only watches, pens, and probably a good wallet and/or briefcase, depending on the job nature.
It just has to be that the shopaholic within me is contemplating to get a few (?) of the above-mentioned accessories. Oh, and it happens that whenever I show a friend something via the Net, he/she will somehow guess that I’ll get that particular item (real soon).
Time has not proven them wrong, yet (it’s a 100% hit-rate).
Maybe it’s true that I don’t like to wait. But, trust me – I do experience buyer’s remorse and I guess I’m suffering from the BBB (Buy Buy Buy) Syndrome. I really have to exercise strong discipline so that I won’t give in to temptation at the end of the day.
Nevertheless, the anticipation of owning a new item is really addictive…